Community Life
30 12 2007I had the opportunity to be in Johnson City the past few days visiting with friends. I am so proud of them! They are committing this year to being together and discerning who God wants them to be and how they can best serve the church. All of them are college grads (some with masters degrees) working at Starbucks, in youth ministry, or with the disabled. It’s not a glamorous life, and at times it can be frustrating and humbling, but they truly believe that a life surrounded by an ‘intentional community’ is part of God’s eternal kingdom breaking in. I joined them during evening prayer – Compline – and was blessed to be reminded that this community intercedes for the life of the world every day.
I know everyone can’t live that kind of life. The level to which people are willing or able to participate in Christian community varies tremendously. It can be a stretch for some people to meet in a small group every week for an hour. Things like life-stage and spiritual maturity are major factors, but whatever level we are at we need to be connected in some way! We can’t discover who God wants us to be without each other. It takes others for us to really understand love, patience, grace, forgiveness, submission and a host of other things that make up the Christian life.
I’m in the middle of reading Thomas Merton’s No Man is an Island (my new must read for small groups pastors when things are getting a little to pragmatic). Merton was a Trappist monk in the Cistercian Abbey of Gethsemani near Bardstown, Kentucky. He writes (bold added):
What every man looks for in life is his own salvation and the salvation of the men he lives with. By salvation I mean first of all the full discovery of who he himself really is. Then I mean something of the fulfillment of his own God-given powers, in the love of others and of God. I mean also the discovery that he cannot find himself in himself alone, but that he must find himself in and through others. Ultimately, these propositions are summed up in two lines of the Gospel: “If any man would save his life, he must lose it,’ and, ‘Love one another as I have loved you,’ It is also contained in another saying from St. Paul: “We are all members one of another.’”
How can we truly love each other if we don’t know each other? And how can we even begin to know each other if we don’t do the hard, messy work of life together? If we aren’t willing to put the work in, to lose our lives, then we are missing out on the abundant life that God has for us, a beautiful replacement for the selfish one we’ve been clinging too.
Friendship and life in community is one of the things I think about a lot, so if you see the friendship icon, you’ll know what’s on my mind.
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